7 PRIMAL WOUNDS
Dr. Michaela Renee Johnson
Why do we blow up over the little things, freeze mid-argument, or fire off texts we instantly regret?
It’s not because there’s something wrong with you—it’s because your Primal Wound just kicked in. And believe it or not, that means your body is...
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Why do we blow up over the little things, freeze mid-argument, or fire off texts we instantly regret? It’s not because there’s something wrong with you—it’s because your Primal Wound just kicked in. And believe it or not, that means your body is doing exactly what it was designed to do. In 7 Primal Wounds, psychotherapist (and former overachiever) Dr. Michaela Renee Johnson (@skytalkdoc) unpacks the emotional emergency response system we all carry—the invisible narratives that quietly run our adult relationships. Whether yours whispers “I’m not good enough,” “I don’t matter,” or “I don’t belong,” it’s not just in your head—it’s wired into your nervous system. With irreverent humor, raw honesty, and unforgettable therapy-room stories (yes, someone really did throw an orange), Dr. Michaela reveals how these wounds hijack your reactions, drive your choices, and shape your connection patterns. Her PRIMAL Reset isn’t another fluffy fix—it’s a real-world roadmap to help you rewire your responses and stop defaulting to fight, flight, fawn, or freeze. You’ll meet your Primal Responders (spoiler: your Inner Teen is a whole vibe) and finally understand why you check out, freak out, or give in just to keep the peace. This isn’t about becoming whole. You already are. It’s about understanding how your brain got wired—and learning how to use it to your advantage. Duration - 6h 13m. Author - Dr. Michaela Renee Johnson. Narrator - Dr. Michaela Renee Johnson. Published Date - Monday, 12 January 2026. Copyright - © 2026 Nimble Solutions Corporation ©.
Language:
English
Opening Credits
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Introduction
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How This Book Works
Duration:00:01:59
When In Doubt Throw an Orange
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The Primal Response System
Duration:00:00:44
The Telehealth Revolution
Duration:00:01:23
Back to Brenda and Scott
Duration:00:01:14
Seeing Both Sides
Duration:00:01:09
Couples Therapy Goal
Duration:00:01:54
The Science of Nonverbal Communication
Duration:00:02:06
The Repair Attempt
Duration:00:03:02
Understanding the Emotional Emergency Response: primal wounds
Duration:00:03:58
I Know You Are But What Am I?
Duration:00:02:26
Primal Responders
Duration:00:02:02
Dynamics in Relationships
Duration:00:00:50
The Child Responder
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The Teen Responder
Duration:00:01:01
Parts of Self
Duration:00:01:15
How Responders Show Up
Duration:00:00:58
Embracing Our Responders
Duration:00:01:03
Exercise: Understanding Your Primal Responders
Duration:00:00:25
Primal Responders Take Over
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Identify Unmet Needs
Duration:00:02:50
Primal Responders Interact
Duration:00:01:21
Tony: The Fixer
Duration:00:01:29
Beyond Blame and Trauma
Duration:00:00:38
The Power of Invisible Wounds
Duration:00:00:48
Tony’s Primal Wound
Duration:00:00:44
Responders
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Trauma Shapes
Duration:00:02:57
Ancient Defense
Duration:00:01:08
Guilt vs. Shame
Duration:00:01:01
Hidden Scripts
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The sabotagers
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Body Keeps Score
Duration:00:03:33
Familiarity
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The Path Forward
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Exercise: Pre Activation Mindset
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Highlight
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Pre Activation Phases
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Scott and Brenda
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The Cycle Of Activation
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Against Each Other
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Breaking The Pattern
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Three Ways Generational Trauma
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Bryan: The Clinger
Duration:00:02:33
Michelle: The Shrinker
Duration:00:02:29
Exercise: Are You Clinging
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Sarah and Curtis: The Cheaters
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Beyond the Quick Fixes: Exercise: Primal Wound
Duration:00:05:04
Breaking Free
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Sarah and Curtis: The Healing Process
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Failure Drives Reaction
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The Neuroscience of Attachment
Duration:00:04:50
What’s Love Got To Do With It?
Duration:00:02:14
Oxytocin: The Cuddle Chemical
Duration:00:00:46
Dopamine: The High That Tricks You
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Jeff and Natalie: Red Flags Hiding
Duration:00:03:38
Therapists Have Therapists
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Danger in Toxic Relationships
Duration:00:01:05
The Jack in the Box Effect
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The Toxic Cycle
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Understanding Trauma Bonds
Duration:00:01:23
The Complexities of Leaving
Duration:00:01:56
Exercise: Toxic Relationship?
Duration:00:01:03
Safety First: Navigating Toxic Relationships
Duration:00:01:02
Understanding Toxic Relationship Dynamics
Duration:00:00:19
The Biology of Trauma Bonds
Duration:00:00:16
Toxic Attachment
Duration:00:00:28
Narcissistic Dynamics
Duration:00:00:21
JED Response
Duration:00:00:43
Your Primal Wound
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Origins Primal Wounds
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I Am Insignificant
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I Am Inadequate
Duration:00:02:55
I Am Damaged
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I Am An Outsider
Duration:00:02:37
I Am Incapable
Duration:00:02:28
I Am Powerless
Duration:00:02:44
I Am Undeserving
Duration:00:02:35
Exercises For Self Discovery
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Exercise: My Primal Wound
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Exercise: Clarifying The Primal Wound
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Working Primal Response
Duration:00:03:38
Primal RESET
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PAUSE
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Body's Reset
Duration:00:00:40
Nervous System Tactics
Duration:00:00:55
REFRAME
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Exercise: Brain Bubble
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Recognize The Brain Bubble
Duration:00:00:41
Reframe the Brain Bubble
Duration:00:00:24
Exercise: Magic Eraser
Duration:00:01:21
IDENTIFY
Duration:00:01:09
Fence Your Feelings
Duration:00:00:35
Fast Track
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Activations & Kids
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Exercise: But Why?
Duration:00:00:18
Struggles
Duration:00:00:29
Dig Deeper
Duration:00:00:03
Beyond the Surface
Duration:00:00:35
Who Reacted?
Duration:00:00:42
Journal Prompt
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MARINATE
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Exercise: Jail Time
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Jail Time Step 1
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Jail Time Step 2
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Re-Engage
Duration:00:00:41
Gauge And Change
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Dashboard Check
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Draw Dashboard
Duration:00:00:24
Check The Gauges
Duration:00:00:14
ReALIGN
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Loosen The Grip
Duration:00:04:24
Exercise Relax
Duration:00:00:03
Identify The Fear
Duration:00:00:28
LET GO
Duration:00:00:22
Let In?
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Recap
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Theory V Reality
Duration:00:02:11
Procrastination
Duration:00:01:56
Finances
Duration:00:01:53
Connections
Duration:00:02:23
Health
Duration:00:02:43
Identity
Duration:00:01:30
When Identity Gets Blurry
Duration:00:00:45
Faceplanting
Duration:00:04:38
Primal Cue Cards
Duration:00:10:43
Communication Breakdowns
Duration:00:02:38
Fight
Duration:00:00:37
Flight
Duration:00:00:41
Fawn
Duration:00:00:34
Freeze
Duration:00:06:45
Breakdown Patterns
Duration:00:04:07
Shaping Communication
Duration:00:06:33
Talk Tactics
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Crisscross Applesauce
Duration:00:02:55
Two Ears One Mouth
Duration:00:01:18
Speaker Role
Duration:00:01:44
Listener Role
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Exercise: Talk Tactics
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Scene Crisscross
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Story Time Limit
Duration:00:00:14
Roles
Duration:00:01:21
Put It Together
Duration:00:02:44
Couple Review
Duration:00:01:39
Brenda & Scott Check In
Duration:00:00:34
Sarah & Curtis
Duration:00:00:33
Maren & Steve
Duration:00:00:30
Jeff & Natalie
Duration:00:01:19
PRIMAL Reset for Couples
Duration:00:01:06
Pause Code Word
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Exercise Code Word
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Set The Scene Code Word
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Understand The Purpose
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Brainstorm Together
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Choose Code Word
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Define Use
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Practice & Adjust
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Implement
Duration:00:00:18
Reframe Couples
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Exercise: Shift Seats
Duration:00:00:15
Pick A Pattern
Duration:00:00:53
Reframe Together
Duration:00:00:24
Anchor A New Move
Duration:00:00:59
Identify Activations
Duration:00:01:55
ER Doc
Duration:00:00:30
Check Vitals
Duration:00:00:20
Locate The Issue
Duration:00:00:17
Whose Showing Up
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Stabilize the Patient
Duration:00:00:19
DXD
Duration:00:00:20
Marinate
Duration:00:03:00
Simmer The Soup
Duration:00:00:16
Bubbling Up
Duration:00:00:19
Urge To Run
Duration:00:00:18
Soothe
Duration:00:00:40
Marinate Activity
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Emotional Flavor
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Repair And Integrate
Duration:00:03:20
Repairing The Frays
Duration:00:00:13
Material
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Set The Scene
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Metaphor
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Fray Moments
Duration:00:00:27
Share And Discuss
Duration:00:00:20
Visualize The Frays
Duration:00:00:15
Fray Work Together
Duration:00:00:30
Commit To Action
Duration:00:00:14
Reflect & Appreciate
Duration:00:00:22
Display Committment
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Kintsugi
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Material Needed
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Set The Scene
Duration:00:00:12
Understanding Kintsugi
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Identify The Breaks
Duration:00:00:21
Share & Discuss
Duration:00:00:17
Repair The Pottery Together
Duration:00:00:20
Paint The Cracks With Gold
Duration:00:00:18
Reflect On Process
Duration:00:00:19