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The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

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United States

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The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

Language:

English


Episodes
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Dildo Whisperer- More Than Sex- Exploring Real Intimacy

8/13/2025
How do you explore intimacy without sex? This week Romaine and Ajay discuss what it is to experience intimacy in a relationship without sex. Why is it important to a healthy relationship and how to recognize if those needs are not being met. Are you being intimate with your partner? Has the intimacy been lagging? It's time to take a look at what we are doing or often not doing to provide intimacy with our partners and others important people in our lives. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:01:00:11

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How Long Should You Wait? Timing Sex in a New Relationship

8/6/2025
How long should you wait to have sex in a new relationship? The dildo whisperer takes a look at this question and provides some methods for you to consider when asking yourself what the right time is? Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:51:57

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Behind Closed Doors: The History of Bathhouses

7/30/2025
Romaine and Ajay are taking a trip to the bathhouse! Learn about the history of bathhouses and how gays turned up the sexuality in them. Plus, find out who go their start in music in a bathhouse! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:56:37

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Not Just the Pill- Birth Control Beyond the Basics

7/23/2025
Birth control is a hot topic when it comes to sex. Who's responsibility is it? What method is the best option? What works and what doesn't? For as long as people have been having sex protecting themselves against an unwanted pregnancy has been important. This week we are discussing all things birth control. And the dildo whisperer has a question for Ajay that stumps him completely. He called his wife for help but did she know the answer? Tune in to find out. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:53:29

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Porn Literacy

7/16/2025
Porn is everywhere now a days but understanding how porn impacts our sex lives and our daily interactions is very important. This week the Dildo Whisperer is going to go deep with a conversation about porn literacy and why it matters. Tune in to learn more about the relationship between porn and real life sexual encounters. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:42:01

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Pride in Pleasure- LGBTQ+ Sex Ed Unfiltered

7/9/2025
June is gay pride month and this week the dildo whisperer is talking about how being part of the LGBTQ+ community impacts a person's view and take on sexuality. This discussion covers some of the differences in sex education for queer people and brands and toy shops that are inclusive of the queer identity. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:44:05

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V- Lit

7/2/2025
This week Romaine and Ajay are joined by a special guest to talk about vaginal rejuvenation. Jeanne Perkins is the inventor of the V-lit which is a device that uses the power of LED light frequencies to help women who are facing issues with their vaginas as a result of things like menopause. If sex has become painful, or your vagina just doesn't get wet like it used to this episode is NOT to be missed. Plus, Jeanne provided us with a special discount on the V-Lit. For a limited time you can go to www.sensualsciences.com and use the promo code: Romaine for $50 off your V-Lit. It also comes with free shipping!! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:58:25

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Love Languages

6/25/2025
What is your love language? This week Romaine and Ajay explore the love languages. What are they and how can understanding them help your relationship? Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:44:41

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Sounding Off

6/18/2025
This week Romaine is going to teach Ajay about Sounding and just wait until you hear what he thinks it is! This episode had Ajay squirming in his seat. Together they explore what urethral sounding is, why people do it, how to do it safely and how to avoid injury. If you have ever thought about trying it out this episode is a great place top start your sounding education. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:50:17

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Cruising on Cruises

6/11/2025
Our Dildo Whisperer just returned from a 16 day cruise and it inspired this week's episode about cruising while cruising! Find out the joys of hooking up at sea and how to find the right cruise line to fit your needs. Romaine and Ajay discuss the proper way to cruise on a cruise without making rookie mistakes. Plus, they answer a couple of listener emails in Dear Dildo Whisperer! This is a fun episode that will have you wanting to take a vacation! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:59:45

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Harmful Lessons

6/4/2025
As we grow up we are taught a lot of things about sex from our parents and the educational system. But what if what we learn is actually wrong or harmful? This week the Dildo Whisper addresses some common things that people are taught about sex and addresses the issues that this misinformation can cause. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:47:19

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Ask The DW and Ajay's Autoblow Review

5/28/2025
The dildo whisper is always asking you to write into the show and this week you did! Romaine and Ajay start this week with a whole bunch of Ask the DW questions! Followed up by the much anticipated segment featuring Ajay's review of the AutoBlow! You aren't going to want to miss his honest thoughts on this advanced sex device. Special thanks to www.autoblow.com and Brian Sloan for sending Ajay an autoblow to try out. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:01:06:53

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Spiritual Sexuality with Kae Ecstatic

5/21/2025
May Is masturbation month and this week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay are joined by spiritual guide and author Kae Ecstatic. Kae is competeing in the Great BateWorld BateOff! Which is a masturbation competition that is taking place every Thursday on BateWorld.com. So make sure to check it out and cheer Kae on! Together Kae, Ajay and Romaine have a deep discussion about the connection between mind and body as it relates to our sexuality. Prepare to hear a deeply moving conversation about masculinity expecations and whole soul orgasms. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:01:04:01

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Wire Cutter's Best In Anal Sex Toys

5/14/2025
Another listener inspired episode! The NYT Wire Cutter recently published their review of the Best Anal Sex Toys. This week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss their picks. Find out if Romaine agrees with their selections and why she might not. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:50:19

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Public Sex

5/7/2025
The vast majority of people fantasize about having sex in public. What is the appeal? While it can be exciting it comes with plenty of risks. Romaine and Ajay share their tales of public sex while discussing the reasons behind why we are attracted to the idea. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:01:01:45

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Storing Your Sex Toys

4/30/2025
Where do you keep your sex toy collection? Is it easy to access? Do you need to keep things descreet? People ask the Dildo Whisperer all the time for tips on how to store their sex toys and this week she is providing some answers! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:34:53

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Prostate Power

4/23/2025
Gentlemen, we are going to talk about your prostate. Ajay is often afraid to talk about anything butt related but this week the Dildo Whisperer is going to educate him on his prostate and how sex can actually keep it healthy. So if you are one of those guys that doesn't have a full understanding of howyour prostate functions or can play a role in your sex life this is the episode for you! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:37:33

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Autoblow Responsibly

4/16/2025
Are you ready for the next generation of sexual devices? It is so good that the manufactures actually had to create a warning label for this product! Romaine and Ajay are joined by Autoblow inventor Brian Sloan and they discuss the evolution of the Autoblow and how AI is changing the game in men's sexual wellness. Check out www.autoblow.com to see for yourself what all the hype is about. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:01:05:29

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Ladies, Let's Look At Your Box

4/9/2025
We recently took a look at the needs of a gentlemen's toy box and we decided that we should life the hood and look at the ladies too. THis week is dedicated to the most important tools a lady should have in her toy box. From Lube to vibrators we cover everything a lady needs. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:45:47

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Life is a Mystery

4/2/2025
No one can agree on this mystery spot that has the ladies all questioning why it feels so good. This week Romaine and Ajay dleve into that mystery known as the gspot! What is it? Where is it? And how do you make the gspot work to your advantage during sex? Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Duration:00:39:35