CockTales: Dirty Discussions

This week, Kiki and Medinah get real about the fine line between being a good friend and doing way too much. From unsolicited advice to judging your friend’s relationship choices, they break down when to speak up—and when to mind your business. Plus, a wild advice letter about dating a “good man” with not-so-good bedroom performance sparks an honest conversation about compatibility, sex, and what really matters in relationships. Offers From Our Sponsors: IndaCloud If you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES! #indacloudpod Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Soaking Wet- VB Health Visit soakingwet.com and use code [INSERT CODE] for 10% off or click the link in the episode description Contact us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.com DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donations MOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1 Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week, we’re outside (literally) with a real Atlanta insider. We’re joined by Shanita, the woman behind @blackgirlsguideatl, and she came through with the blueprint for actually enjoying this city—whether you’re dating, solo, or outside with your girls. We kick things off with a round of I’m Curious to Know that gets a little personal (as usual), then get into everything Atlanta: where to go, what to do, and how to stop defaulting to the same tired dinner + drinks routine. From Beltline staples and hidden gems to interactive date ideas, museums, wine tastings, and even where to meet quality men (yes… she gave real strategy), this episode is basically your Atlanta starter pack. We’re talking daytime vibes, girl dates, family-friendly options, and experiences that actually make dating fun again. We also get into real conversation about confidence, self-worth, and dating from a place of abundance—not desperation. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure where to start, this part is for you. Plus, we highlight some incredible Black-owned businesses, local experiences, and upcoming events you need to add to your list ASAP. Save this episode, share it with your group chat, and take notes—because Shanita did not come to play. Cocktail of the Week: “Sweet, But Don’t Play With Me” 2 oz vodka 1 oz triple sec ½ oz fresh lemon juice Splash of soda water Add ingredients over ice, top with soda water, and stir gently. Offers From Our Sponsors: Erika Lust Get 45% off with code COCKTALES at Erikalust.com Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Follow Our Guest Instagram: @blackgirlsguideatl Contact us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com You can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039 Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://paradiseandvibe.com DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA (MOWA)- https://www.mowatl.org/donations MOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1 Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions,the conversation gets real about effort, expectations, and the ongoing struggle of trying to meet people halfway… when they’re barely stepping forward. We’re joined by publicist and conflict coach, Adrienne, of the IPY Agency. We unpack the imbalance that shows up in dating and relationships — from emotional labor to planning, communication, and consistency — and ask: are we asking for too much, or are people just doing too little? The episode dives into what “meeting in the middle” actually looks like, how compromise gets misunderstood, and why so many situationships feel one-sided. Of course, we keep it honest, a little petty, and very relatable.Topics Covered: Offers From Our Sponsors: DRIVE BOOST BY VB HEALTH Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Follow Our Guest Instagram: @impromotingyou Adrienne’s Site: Public Relations | The IPY Agency | United States Purchase Meet Me In the Middle https://ipyagency.myshopify.com/ Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club March Book of the Month “Confessions of Hustla’s Housekeeper” www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations MOWA TASTE May 29, 2026 LINK : onecau.se/_fv6xa1 Dear Lover Girl : https://dearlovergirlbymedinah.substack.com/?r=qjp94&utm_campaign=pub-share-checklist Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week, we’re joined by comedian Keysha E for a fun, slightly chaotic, and very honest conversation about dating, attraction, and figuring out what we actually want. From celebrity crush debates to whether chemistry is just a toxic addiction (yes, we said it), we get into the difference between a good partner and a good time. We also talk about pretty privilege in comedy, dating in Atlanta vs. LA, finances in relationships, and why “safe” might not be as boring as it sounds. Plus, we answer a listener question about feeling lost in life and share a CockTales story that involves a FaceTime mishap you absolutely don’t want to experience 😭 We kick things off getting to know Keysha—from her journey into comedy to what it’s like being an attractive woman in a space where people don’t always expect you to be funny . The conversation quickly turns into dating (of course), where we unpack everything from celebrity crushes and short king debates to the reality of dating in Atlanta versus Los Angeles. We get into a deeper conversation about chemistry vs. compatibility—are we chasing that instant spark because it feels good, or because we’ve been conditioned to? And are we overlooking genuinely good partners because they don’t give us that “high”? We also talk about marriage, financial conversations in relationships, independence, and what it looks like to build with someone instead of waiting until everything is perfect. In this week’s advice segment, we respond to a listener who’s questioning the point of life and whether everything feels like a performance. It turns into a real conversation about purpose, slowing down, and figuring out what actually brings you joy. And of course, we wrap things up with CockTales—where Keysha shares a story involving FaceTime that goes very, very left. Offers From Our Sponsors: Erika Lust Get 45% off with code COCKTALES at Erikalust.com Super.com Start building your credit the easy way. Go to Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Brello Go to BrelloHealth.com to see if you qualify and explore their GLP-1 plans, starting at $133 per month for your first three months, plus access to their app, community, and wellness classes. IndaCloud If you’re 21 or older, get 35% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES #indacloudpod Follow Our Guest! Instagram: @itskeysha.e Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Bali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/Bali Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club March Book of the Month “Confessions of Hustla’s Housekeeper” www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with LaToya Shambo, founder and CEO of Black Girl Digital and creator of Creator Palooza. From building a platform that celebrates Black creators to negotiating million-dollar brand deals, LaToya breaks down what it really takes to build influence into a real business. The conversation dives into entrepreneurship, imposter syndrome, and the realities of the creator economy—plus how to determine your value and confidently negotiate what you’re worth. LaToya shares the lessons she learned from working in advertising and media before launching her own company and explains why learning on someone else’s dime can be one of the smartest moves future entrepreneurs make. They also talk about growth, letting go of old situations, the importance of forgiveness, and why knowing your value—whether in business, relationships, or life—is a practice. If you’ve ever wondered how creators turn content into careers, this episode is packed with insight, honesty, and real talk. Follow Our Guest @latoyashambo @blackgirldigital SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads SOAKING WET Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off SUPER.COM Try out Super.com/credit right now to see how Super+ can help you boost your credit score. Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

Kiki and Medinah kick off Women’s History Month reflecting on their own journeys through womanhood — though, as usual, the conversation takes a few hilarious detours. From friendship with exes and the realities of modern dating to motherhood fears, sex, passion, and personal independence, this episode dives into the messy, honest, and sometimes funny realities of being a woman today. Cocktail of the Week Tamarind Tease Ingredients • 1.5 oz vodka • 2 oz tamarind concentrate • 1 oz St. Germain • 1.5 oz agave • 3–4 drops blood orange bitters • Thai chili peppers • Ginger • Fresh mint or basil • Chili lime salt rim A spicy-sweet cocktail with tropical vibes and a little kick. Perfect for romanticizing life at home. SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads ERIKALUST Check out ERIKALUST and use our promo code COCKTALES for 45% off! http://erikalust.com/ DRIVE BOOST Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

This week we’re joined by producer and BET host Brian “B-Mac” McIntosh for an honest conversation about modern dating, boundaries, emotional growth, and what healthy relationships actually look like. We talk about how dating changes in your 30s, why moving too fast in relationships can create chaos, and how men and women often misunderstand each other when it comes to vulnerability and emotional needs. The conversation dives into casual dating vs commitment, love languages, communication, and the importance of boundaries in modern relationships. B-Mac opens up about fatherhood, co-parenting, career growth, and learning how to be emotionally available in a world where social media and public opinion never stop talking. We also discuss the pressure to share your life online, handling criticism, and the reality of building relationships while still healing. If you’ve ever struggled with situationships, dating boundaries, emotional attachment, or figuring out what healthy dating looks like, this episode is for you. In this episode we discuss: • Dating in your 30s vs your 20s • Boundaries in relationships • Casual dating vs commitment • Emotional maturity and vulnerability • Love languages and communication • Co-parenting and modern fatherhood • Healing while dating • Social media and relationships Follow Our Guest! Brian "B-Mac" McIntosh Instagram @_iambmac Watch For The Fellas! on Watch Here on YouTube or Find it One Bet+ SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads SOAKING WET- Try Soaking Wet from VB Health by visiting soakingwet.com and using promo code COCKTALES Follow Our Guest! Trey Moe https://www.instagram.com/treymoe/ Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: https://forms.gle/czoa6u7wmmiYif7Z6 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: Guest Interest Form

BEDUCATED: Kick off your journey by taking the Quiz! https://beducate.me/pd2608-cocktales This week we’re joined by producer and BET host Brian “B-Mac” McIntosh for an honest conversation about modern dating, boundaries, emotional growth, and what healthy relationships actually look like. We talk about how dating changes in your 30s, why moving too fast in relationships can create chaos, and how men and women often misunderstand each other when it comes to vulnerability and emotional needs. The conversation dives into casual dating vs commitment, love languages, communication, and the importance of boundaries in modern relationships. B-Mac opens up about fatherhood, co-parenting, career growth, and learning how to be emotionally available in a world where social media and public opinion never stop talking. We also discuss the pressure to share your life online, handling criticism, and the reality of building relationships while still healing. If you’ve ever struggled with situationships, dating boundaries, emotional attachment, or figuring out what healthy dating looks like, this episode is for you. In this episode we discuss: • Dating in your 30s vs your 20s • Boundaries in relationships • Casual dating vs commitment • Emotional maturity and vulnerability • Love languages and communication • Co-parenting and modern fatherhood • Healing while dating • Social media and relationships Follow Our Guest! Brian "B-Mac" McIntosh Instagram @_iambmac Watch For The Fellas! on Watch Here on YouTube or Find it One Bet+ SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads ERIKALUST Check out ERIKALUST and use our promo code COCKTALES for 45% off! http://erikalust.com/ BROOKLYN BEDDING: Go to brooklynbedding.com and use OUR promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. BEDUCATED: Kick off your journey by taking the Quiz! https://beducate.me/pd2608-cocktales Follow Our Guest! Brian "B-Mac" McIntosh https://www.instagram.com/_iambmac/ Watch For The Fellas! on @BETNetworks https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJHDZGUl8Ilq6qOqxdBP84d7i012RIwFp&si=Puaspv6kCmZDphDN Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Join Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe DONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donations CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: https://forms.gle/czoa6u7wmmiYif7Z6 Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support. CONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode: Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidso Medinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandean TikTok: @medinahmonroe CockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcast TikTok: @cocktalespodcast Want to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to...

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re asking the real question: Who has shut-up money?! We kick things off with travel nostalgia and vacation dreams before running straight into the hilarious reality of adulthood. We dive into the chaos of planning family vacations, organizing group trips, setting budgets, and why everyone wants a luxury trip until it’s time to pay the deposit. In this episode, we talk about: • The stress of planning trips with friends and family • Budget conversations nobody wants to have • The difference between work travel vs real vacations • Why group chats can’t plan trips to save their lives • Dream destinations vs real-life responsibilities Then it’s time for Weird Sex, and this story is truly unforgettable. A shocking medical discovery sparks a conversation about embarrassment, health, and the wild things people do in relationships. We wrap things up with Valentine’s Day vibes, listener advice, and plenty of laughs along the way. Cocktail of the Week 🍸The Emotional Intelligence Smoky, sweet, spicy, and perfectly balanced — just like the conversations.Ingredients • 2 oz mezcal • 2 oz pineapple juice • ¾ oz fresh lime juice • ½ oz agave syrup (adjust to taste) • Tajín for rim (optional) • Ice • Pineapple wedge or lime wheel for garnishDirections Cheers 🥂SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERSFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads DRIVE BOOST FROM VBHEALTHVisit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Chapters 00:00:00 - Introduction and Cocktail Recipe 00:00:49 - Reminiscing Past Experiences 00:04:25 - Planning for Family Vacations 00:13:51 - Weird Sex Segment 00:15:17 - Bizarre Medical Story 00:17:56 - Sponsor Message: BB Health 00:20:26 - Valentine's Day and Relationships 00:31:33 - Valentine's Day Survival Guide 00:33:47 - TV Show Recommendations 00:44:07 - Advice Segment: Long Distance Relationship 00:46:57 - Long Distance Relationship Breakdown 00:50:47 - Advice and Reflections Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

February looks a little different this year… because we are letting men take the mic. To kick off our February Men’s Series, we are joined by actor, producer, veteran and content creator Mike Bless aka Michael Anthony. This conversation dives deep into dating, emotional healing, masculinity and the realities of modern relationships from a male perspective. We talk about how men process heartbreak, the role of honesty in dating, why communication looks different for men, and the idea that many men heal quietly instead of publicly. Mike opens up about accountability, emotional vulnerability, dating expectations and the importance of being honest about intentions early. Of course, we also get into power dynamics in relationships, monogamy vs honesty, the Atlanta dating scene, men wearing purses (yes, we went there), and why giving space in early dating might actually be healthy. This episode kicks off a full month of real conversations with men about love, growth, healing and relationships — and we are listening. Cocktail of the Week: The Leading Man Ingredients 2 oz bourbon 1 oz blood orange juice ½ oz simple or honey syrup 2 dashes Angostura bitters Orange peel garnish Instructions Sip, stare dramatically into the distance, and pretend you’re the main character. 🥃🍊 SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERS For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads ERIKALUST Check out ERIKALUST and use our promo code COCKTALES for 45% off! http://erikalust.com/ SOAKING WET FROM VBHEALTH Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off! Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Are you getting a good Relationship ROI, or are you just operating in chaos? This week, Kiki and Medinah discuss the importance of intentionality—from your wellness routine to your brunch dates. We’re diving into why separated checks at a bottomless mimosa brunch might actually be the ultimate green flag for clarity. In This Episode: The ladies discuss the transition from "brunch friends" to "real life" support and why Medinah appreciated a guy friend being 100% upfront about financial boundaries. We also get into the "weird sex" story of the week: a romantic shower that turned into an Olympic sport when the curtain rod gave up. Plus, Kiki talks about the struggle of people always "outsourcing" their work to her—from party planning to free makeup sessions. We also cover: Intentional Health: The "Ghost" Eyebrow Incident: Advice: This Week's Cocktail: The Calm but Curious Mule A refreshing, spicy mocktail (with an optional kick). Ingredients:Garnish:Instructions:Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALESfor 10% off Try Brello! Go to brellohealth.com and use code COCKTALES For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Follow Us: Instagram: @cocktalespodcast Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandean Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird S*x: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

What’s Your Superpower? In this episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah tap into reflection, purpose, and grown-woman clarity as they unpack the question: what’s your real superpower? From unexpected “God wink” moments to conversations about confidence, imposter syndrome, and walking into rooms knowing you belong, this episode is about recognizing your value without needing permission. The ladies open up about how their strengths show up in work, relationships, and community — and why sometimes it takes a stranger, a producer, or a quiet moment to remind you that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. They also talk about commitment in this season of life, learning how to say no without guilt, setting boundaries that actually protect your peace, and why burnout isn’t a badge of honor. In Weird Sex, the conversation turns to curiosity, threesomes, and ethical non-monogamy — breaking down how to talk about fantasies honestly, why curiosity doesn’t equal dissatisfaction, and how consent and communication make all the difference. As always, things take a turn into real life: fostering chaotic cats, stepping back from dating, learning new skills, choosing rest, and staying grounded when life feels overwhelming. If you’ve been questioning your path, feeling stuck, or wondering whether you’re doing enough, this episode is a reminder that your presence, your voice, and your energy matter more than you think. Sometimes your superpower isn’t loud — it’s just consistent. 🍹 This Week’s Cocktail: The Soft Launch Spritz (Mocktail) A fresh, light mocktail perfect for Dry January — or spike it if you’re feeling spicy. Ingredients How to Make Check Out Erika Lust and use Promo code "COCKTALES" for a 45% discount erikalust.com Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use code COCKTALESPOD FOR 30% OFF SITEWIDE!! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird S*x: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

SPECIAL OFFER! Beducated is offering our listeners 50% off an annual membership when you click the link iand use code COCKTALES. https://beducate.me/pd2549-cocktales Last week we kicked off our “Who Said That?” recap, and this week we’re back with Part 2 — more wild clips, iconic one-liners, and a few moments that reminded us why CockTales is funny and deep when it wants to be. This episode is a continuation of last week’s trip down memory lane, pulling standout moments from different years of the show. Some clips had us crying laughing, some had us side-eyeing ourselves, and others took a surprisingly thoughtful turn — because if we’re gonna reflect, we might as well do it honestly. We talk fashion eras (yes, the Martha Stewart linen phase still stands), dating boundaries, bad decisions we didn’t make, and the difference between being open-minded and being open to everything (spoiler: not the same). We also get into why “sex is a skill,” why everybody with a microphone is not a licensed expert, and why sometimes the real growth is knowing when to stop, sit still, and get yourself together. As always, there’s plenty of foolishness, a little ministry, and a lot of “did she really say that?” energy. If you haven’t listened to Part 1, go run that back first — then come join us here. 🍹 Cocktail of the Episode French 75… But Make It Therapy You’ll need: How to make it: Shake Bailey’s with a small splash of simple syrup until frothy. Pour vanilla vodka into a flute, top with sparkling wine, gently spoon the foam on top, and garnish with a lemon twist. Do not rush the foam unless you want chaos in a glass. 🗣 Topics We Get Into: VB Health – Soaking Wet Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts. 📺 Watch the full episode on YouTube. 💬 Tell us which quote took you OUT Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

It’s time to look back… and immediately ask ourselves, “Wait—who said that?!” In Part 1 of this two-part recap episode, Kiki and Medinah revisit some of the wildest, funniest, most unhinged moments from 2025 (with a few older classics sprinkled in), reacting to past clips in real time and reliving everything from comedian guests and dating rants to weird sex stories, hair debates, pop culture takes, and those signature CockTales side quests that somehow always lead back to food. This episode is pure commentary chaos: – Comedians we loved (and clips that still hold up… mostly) – Dating opinions that aged interestingly – Hair, weaves, man-weaves, and why honesty matters – Weird sex facts that somehow turn into social commentary – Pop culture deep dives (yes, including Game of Thrones) – Rants that start one place and end somewhere completely different Think of this as a highlight reel with commentary, context, and a little “wow… we really said that” energy. And don’t worry — this is just Part 1. There’s plenty more where this came from. 🎧 Listen, laugh, argue with us in your head, and let us know in the comments which clips took you OUT. 🍸 Today’s Cocktail: The Velvet Revolution Smooth, cozy, and perfect for a recap episode. Ingredients 1.5 oz Baileys 1 oz vanilla vodka or dark rum 1 oz cold brew coffee or espresso (optional, but highly encouraged) Ice Nutmeg or cinnamon (for garnish) How to Make It Add Baileys, vodka or rum, and cold brew to a shaker filled with ice. Shake well until chilled and silky. Strain into a coupe or rocks glass. Sprinkle nutmeg or cinnamon on top and enjoy. Cheers to closing out 2025 and easing into 2026 — raspy voices, hot takes, and all. 🥂 Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Interested in being a guest? Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Looking for a new podcast home or event space? Use our referal link and book on PeerSpace. This space is available there: www.peerspace.com/claim/gr-PPJGdRwxzlJDG Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

In this episode, Kiki and Medinah get into one of the hardest parts of adulthood: how to say uncomfortable things with love, tact, and intention. What starts as a casual conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about honesty, boundaries, emotional awareness, and why so many people avoid hard conversations altogether. From awkward truths like bad breath and body odor to deeper emotional feedback that can strain friendships and relationships, the ladies unpack why delivery matters just as much as truth. They talk about when honesty is helpful versus harmful, how personal experiences shape our ability to receive feedback, and why avoidance often feels easier than vulnerability. The episode also explores relationship expectations, emotional maturity, and a listener write-in that sparks a real conversation about compatibility, communication, and knowing when something just isn’t aligned. Along the way, Kiki reflects on personal growth, past embarrassment, family dynamics, and learning how to pause before reacting, especially when emotions are high. This is a funny, honest, and thought-provoking episode about growth, self-awareness, and learning how to communicate without tearing people down — or disappearing when things get uncomfortable. If you’ve ever struggled with telling the truth, hearing the truth, or figuring out how to say the hard thing without hurting someone, this episode is for you. Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use code COCKTALESPOD FOR 30% OFF SITEWIDE!! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.” We also get into:• A listener’s essential-oil disaster (peppermint should NOT go everywhere) • Why communication is not “being nosy” • New men in elevators & unexpected meet-cutes • Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats • Atlanta life updates, Friendsgiving stories & deconstructed pies • What dating looks like when you’re grown, busy, and intentional 🍸 pH BALANCE COCKTAIL 2 oz vodka 1 oz fresh lemon juice 0.75 oz honey syrup or simple syrup Splash of cranberry juice 2–3 cucumber slices Club soda to top Garnish: cucumber wheel or lemon twist How to make it: Muddle the cucumber gently in a shaker. Add vodka, lemon juice, and honey. Shake. Strain over ice in a tall glass, add a splash of cranberry, top with club soda, and garnish. Announcements and promos are at the end — don’t miss them! FOLLOW US: @COCKTALESPOD @KIKISAIDSO @COFFEEBEANDEAN For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducated If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/pd2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducated We’re shaking up the holiday season with a cocktail that tastes like Christmas, cozy vibes, and just a little bit of sin. This week’s drink is the Naughty Nog Martini, a frothy eggnog latte moment that somehow led us straight into one of the wildest public emergency stories ever told on CockTales. 🍸 Naughty Nog (Eggnog Latte Martini) Recipe Ingredients: Instructions: Add everything to a shaker with ice. Shake hard until frothy, strain into a martini glass, and top with cinnamon or nutmeg. Sip slowly… because clearly, this drink has consequences. Once the cocktails hit, we dive into: ✨ Holiday traditions and why cheesy Lifetime movies still eat every time ✨ All Her Fault theories, plot twists, and why Kiki is ready to write and direct ✨ Medina’s acting dreams and the monologue she’s already prepared ✨ Theme night prep: Dirty Disney, North Pole After Dark, In Living Color, and Strip Club Night ✨ Plane farts, airplane germs, and why those blankets are not your friends ✨ A full-on stomach betrayal that led to a Ziploc bag, a frantic phone call, and an emergency Chick-fil-A pit stop We also get into supporting partners with mental health struggles, TikTok conspiracy holes, dog-nap nightmares, Carry-On Only delusion, and why sometimes you just have to end the whole day and start over. This episode has holiday chaos, movie talk, outfit planning, questionable decisions, and a very public emergency that will absolutely have you hollering.Grab a Naughty Nog and press play — we warned you. FOLLOW US: @COCKTALESPOD @KIKISAIDSO @COFFEEBEANDEAN For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducated If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

In this week’s episode, actress, writer, producer and professional on-screen villain Lindsay Diann pulls up for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about being paper pregnant, navigating miscarriage, and stepping into baby joy after loss. She shares what it was really like inducing her missed miscarriage at home, how hormones had her feeling unhinged, and what partners should—and shouldn’t—do when you’re carrying that emotional load alone. We dive into the mental shift from “outside girl” to “intentional woman,” why friendships change when marriages and babies enter the chat, and how to be a better friend when someone in your circle goes through trauma. Lindsay also spills on playing the unhinged Leslie on “The Team”, the joy of being a villain, and what’s next for her production company, LA Elite Productions, including her upcoming films “Girls Night,” “The Perfect Proposal,” and “Curious.” And because every episode needs something in the glass, today’s drink is the Prego-Rita — a citrusy mocktail with a sparkling-wine upgrade for the girls who aren’t pregnant. 🍹 Today’s Cocktail: The Prego-Rita (Mocktail + Cocktail) Base: Cocktail Add-On: Directions: Shake lime, orange, and agave over ice. Pour into a rimmed glass over fresh ice. Mocktail: top with club soda. Cocktail: add sparkling wine, then top with club soda. Garnish with jalapeño for a spicy kick. FOLLOW US: @COCKTALESPOD @KIKISAIDSO @COFFEEBEANDEAN FOLLOW OUR GUEST: @SHESJUSTLINDSAY Promos BROOKLYN BEDDING: Go to www.brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. CELEBRATOR: Experience the difference oscillation makes. Get 20% off The Celebrator & free shipping today at 3rdPlanetProducts.com CODE COCKTALES20 For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping! Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird *ex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

Kiki and Medinah are back with a full life update you did not see coming. From Virgin Voyages cruise chaos (yes, sandstorms and lost cameras!) to pajama parties, new friendships, holiday stress, and family tea — the girls cover it all. Plus, a deep dive into the Celebrator device, gummy-induced zen, TikTok traps, new jobs, weddings, and why learning something new might be your new self-care hack. It’s unhinged, cozy, hilarious, and very CockTales. For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads If you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping! Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroe Purchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.com Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.

We are back in the studio with Cocktales Chardonnay in our glasses and a lot on our hearts. This week Kiki and Medinah catch you up on everything from Hedonism in Jamaica after Hurricane Melissa to one of the wildest Weird Sex stories we have had in a minute. Kiki shares how the resort staff has been impacted, why she is turning her suitcase into a donation bin, and how you can help if you feel called to give. Medinah talks about Paradise & Vibe’s Traveler’s Resort family, the fundraiser in Jamaica and why natural disasters hit different when you know the people affected. We also get into robot taxis glitching in Atlanta, Kiki’s fever app mock trial experience where the audience decides who is guilty in an AI car accident, and Medinah’s grown woman announcements, including her holiday tablescaping class with her interior designer and a full wellness retreat in Istanbul, Turkey. A listener writes in about an ER trauma case where a woman comes in after being hit by a car, gets scanned head to toe, and the entire team discovers a plug sitting pretty on the CT. From toys to MRIs and lying about metal in your body, we take it there. Then the episode takes a tender turn. Medinah opens up about putting her dog Shai down, what led up to that heartbreaking vet visit, the costs, the process and the grief of coming home to an empty hallway, a leash in the car and a quiet house after more than a decade with her best friend. She reflects on a long season of letting go, trusting God, and learning healthier coping mechanisms than she had when she first got Chi. Kiki shares her own life updates too, including a Leo and Teyana Taylor film premiere, more thoughts on AI car trials, using the Fever app to find things to do, and why Atlanta actually has plenty of food and fun if you stop following only the “lit” IG spots. The ladies swap date recommendations like Midtown Social’s R&B Bingo, Cirque du Soleil, museums, sushi classes and even ballroom dancing. They close with some real talk about how podcasts and creator work are actually funded, why your subscription, reviews and shares really matter, and how you can support CockTales without going broke in this economy. Plus, Medinah invites listeners to join her for a Meals on Wheels Atlanta volunteer day and reminds anyone struggling that there are resources and community waiting. If you have ever loved a pet like a family member, felt stuck in grief, or just needed a reminder that you can cry and still get cute for a date and a concert, this episode is for you. Interested in being a guest? Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links! For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping! Promo Code for 20% off a ticket: TABLESCAPE2025 WINE & DESIGN https://www.eventbrite.com/e/wine-design-hosted-by-brian-christion-madinah-monroe-112225-tickets-1857609192099?aff=oddtdtcreator VOLUNTEER WITH MEDINAH 11/20 https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKwE0pjsr38uX9qlRvCJOdHDxJqey1qAxE4vXBIMNLrYr_Bg/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=101308055207483565674 Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.com Weird : weirdsex@cocktalespod.com Live Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.com Guest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktales Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.com Join Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidso Travel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live. Travel With Medinah!...