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Send us a text Ep 672: The Unfiltered Truth: What it's like to be an Adult Performer in the Industry with Dante Diggz. Hear it straight from Dante who strives to spread Industry Awareness about what it's really like within the community of the Adult Industry. Sex is labeled as evil and bad by many, hear from a man who speaks his mind about sex, sexuality, and culture. Don't miss as he shares his personal story of sexuality, sexual health, sexual wellness, what it means to perform for the camera, and how this career has affected his personal love life. # From Warehouse Worker to Adult Industry Success: The Dante Diggz Story **Ever wondered what it really takes to transition from a regular 9-to-5 to becoming a successful adult performer?** Dante Diggz shares his incredible journey from working at a warehouse to becoming a recognized name in the adult entertainment industry. In this eye-opening episode, Dante reveals how his background in fitness and the swinger lifestyle naturally led him into content creation when his personal training business declined during the pandemic. He breaks down the realities of turning sexuality into a profession - from the technical challenges of performing while managing camera angles to the rigorous safety protocols that define the industry. The conversation dives deep into what makes someone truly skilled in intimacy, with Dante emphasizing that great lovers prioritize their partner's pleasure and practice selfless attention to detail. He also discusses the business side, including his Urban X Award nominations, building a brand beyond performing, and the strategic decisions that drive content creation. Dante doesn't shy away from the sacrifices either - the loss of privacy, relationship challenges, and how the work requires treating intimate moments as professional productions rather than personal connections. **Ready to hear the unfiltered truth about turning passion into profession? Listen to the full episode now.** Connect with Dante Diggz on social media platforms as dantediggz https://instagram.com/dantediggz99 Find him also associated with Red Bottom Productions. Key Takeaways: • A blue‑collar-to-content-creator pivot: Dante left a warehouse job and personal‑training to monetize sexuality—driven by a swinger lifestyle and fitness—showing sex work can emerge from everyday jobs and subcultures. • Sex as craft, not intimacy: performers deliberately frame scenes as production—focused on stamina, tailored technique, attentiveness—and separate personal intimacy from on‑camera work. • Safety and business savvy matter: routine testing, careful navigation of platform limits, awards/fame, and a strategic shift toward production/branding are central to a sustainable career in paid content. Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 670: Erotic Romance fiction excerpt, MMF Age Gap Younger Men, Older Woman, age gap threesome Sex Scene from John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures Book. Book Blurb: Laney, John, and Anderson have a new arrangement. In bed, they luckily have a large one at the house. Laney likes the middle of the mattress the best, except for when being draped over the edge for thigh clapping exercises because those give her the most satisfying workouts. The repairmen still come, the dreamy dryer repair guy, then the flirty young man window washer, and the enthusiastic nerdy IT Technician, who are all at the house in turn to fix all the broken things. They are up for the spicy extras of visiting the house to Laney's ecstatic delight, too, because she loves to be used by them. John, being the alpha male coordinator of the events, is the most efficient top director, but Anderson is never slacking off either as second dominant in command. He keeps watch to be sure Laney's safe, too, as she entertains the visitors to the house. She's the most talented at it, plus she loves being shared! But Laney's worried. Anderson has met someone, and she fears it will break their new way of life that she loves so much. They all adore their triad union, so why does it have to change? Living the hotwife swinger lifestyle may not be as easygoing and smooth as they once had thought. This is Book 2 in the Servicing the Work Men Series. Subtropes list: power plays, spicy romance, BDSM, impact play, polyamory romance, throuple, alternative lifestyle, wife being shared, empowerment, exhibitionism, voyeurism, married couple, Dom/sub dynamics, strangers to lovers hotwife, reverse age gap older woman, younger man romance relationships, later in life hot, alternative lifestyle education, consent is a turn on and essential. Get your dirty romance books for women, dirty books for men, filthy fiction (with romance too) from Ruan Willow! She writes adult books for women that are a dirty smutty feel good romance steamy read. Get the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/johngiveshiswifehotadventures Get Book 1 Servicing the Work Men for only $0.99 cents (through the end of October 2025): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 669: Adult Performer Pixxxie LaRue on Extreme Fetish Work and Industry Safety What happens when a 4'10" performer becomes one of the industry's most sought-after extreme fetish specialists? In this candid interview, adult performer Pixxxie LaRue opens up about her blossoming career, releasing nine DVDs in just one year and specializing in controversial scenes like waterboarding. LaRue discusses the dual mindset required for extreme performances - maintaining professional awareness while sometimes becoming genuinely immersed in the experience. She emphasizes that **safety measures and consent are always paramount**, crediting Red Bottom Productions Studio for creating secure working environments. The conversation explores LaRue's journey of sexual exploration and how her work helps others discover new interests safely. She shares insights about her business-minded approach to the industry, leveraging her marketing background to create a unique niche rather than working through traditional agencies. LaRue also touches on important topics like women's sexual health, the role of self-exploration, and defending adult entertainment as both entertainment and educational content that promotes consent education. She discusses her recent AVN nomination and various platforms where fans can find her content, particularly recommending MintStars, a new sex worker-owned platform. Ready to hear more about navigating extreme fetish work safely and professionally? Listen to the full episode for LaRue's unfiltered insights into the adult entertainment industry. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Introducing Pixxxie LaRue Porn Star 00:02:08 - Exploring Extreme Kinks and Boundaries 00:06:12 - Finding Pixxxiie LaRue Online 00:25:03 - Consent and Communication in Adult Films 00:27:15 - Extreme Adult Film Scene Discussion 00:30:46 - Performing with Creativity and Authenticity 00:35:58 - Choosing Authenticity Over Masking 00:45:38 - Consent Makes Everything Better 00:48:10 - Family Support in Adult Entertaiment 00:51:05 - Online Trolls Boost My Views 01:03:15 - Positive Fan Impact and Representation Key takeaways: • LaRue maintains a complex dual mindset during extreme scenes, balancing professional awareness with genuine psychological immersion while filming • The adult industry has developed sophisticated safety protocols for extreme content, with studios like Red Bottom Productions prioritizing secure working environments • Sex workers are pioneering cryptocurrency-based platforms like MintStars to circumvent traditional financial restrictions and maintain greater control over their businesses Connect with Pixxxie: Spicy https://allmylinks.com/pixxxielarue Social Media Twitter/X - @wee_pixxxie Social Media Tiktok - @wee.pixxxie.larue Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Neighborhood Sex Secrets Excerpt Mind Blowing Oral Munch scene... Allen is visiting Alexa at her house and she's home alone so they can get busy right on the living room couch. They chat and then things erupt into super stimulating, ultra hot oral! Get the ebook for FREE right now (only through 9/25/25) on Amazon https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Get the safe for work cover edition of Neighborhood Secrets: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsecretssfwcover Get a signed copy of the book directly from Ruan: https://payhip.com/b/XUFfr Get FREE EROTIC BOOKS! Through 9/25 only https://storyoriginapp.com/to/GKR9gNx Book blurb: Alexa has missed out for long enough. Life with her ex had stuck her with a vanilla sex life. All the deep, dark fantasies she had hidden away began to bubble up once she became single. Her journey toward sexual freedom skyrocketed when she learned about neighborhood sex secrets at a pool party where she was suddenly calling two neighbors ‘Daddy’. As she melted into the secret sex world emerging before her in the seemingly boring square mile of homes, she deliciously found herself assimilating into the hidden underworld of an alternative lifestyle. Her sexual explorations exploded as she let go of traditional societal conventions and chose to take chances. Instead of playing alone in her bedroom, she began to live out the raunchiest depths of her fantasies as her new partners set out to help her fulfill her sexual bucket list. Alexa spread her wings doing taboo acts in real life that, until then, she’d only watched on a screen or lived merely in her dreams. Her Daddies became her guardians, deliverers of her desires, and directors of sexual heights she never thought were possible. But then her new world gets threatened. Someone doesn’t want her in the new triad of Daddy, Daddy, and good girl. Not only can the good guys turn bad, but bad guys also come back, and only the protected good girls can withstand the storms. Through it all, she finally understands one thing for sure, she is most definitely a good girl, and good girls have the most fun when they follow their ‘Daddies’. An HEA spicy romance, a Daddy Dom/submissive story of control and submission that flourishes as mutual sexual freedoms. The book contains elements of mild BDSM, multiple partners, exhibitionism, cheating, experimentation, and lots of pleasure. ALL acts are consensual and characters are 18 and over. Enjoy a story of fantasy later-in-life exploration into open sexuality. Some dark romance themes. New audiobook release Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretp Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 664: Ever wondered how childhood experiences secretly shape your sexual desires and why most women struggle to ask for what they want in bed? In this eye-opening episode, Ruin Willow sits down with Tash Doherty (Miss Educated), a London-born writer, author, and sexuality advocate now based in Mexico who's on a mission to make the world "shamelessly sexy." Tash breaks down her three-pillar approach to sexual empowerment: discover what you want, believe you deserve it, and ask for it. The conversation dives deep into how family and cultural shame impact our sexuality, with Tash sharing insights from her upcoming **Sex Journal** launching on Kickstarter. This beautifully designed journal features 20 poems and themed prompts exploring ecstasy, obsession, longing, and desire—all designed to help women reduce shame and align their sex lives with their values. From discussing how childhood associations create unexpected fetishes to exploring the healing power of erotic writing, Tash traces sexuality's role throughout history—from Sappho to the Song Dynasty. She shares her journey from teen romance novelist to sex blogger, including viral pieces like "Get a Man Who Loves Your Bush." The duo also tackles the complex role of pornography in sexual education, highlighting ethical alternatives, and emphasizing the importance of self-exploration through masturbation and quality toys. Ready to explore your own sexual narrative without shame? Tune in for this transformative conversation about reclaiming pleasure and rewriting your story, thereby also improving your relationships. Key Takeaways: • A simple three-pillars formula—know what you want, believe you deserve it, ask for it—reframes sexual confidence as a learnable practice. • Erotic journaling can dismantle familial shame and scaled into a mainstream coffee-table Sex Journal launched on Kickstarter. • Stigmatized practices (masturbation, toys, "healthier" porn, open communication) are portrayed as deliberate tools to build self-knowledge, pleasure, and agency. Chapters Timeline: 00:00:02 - Shamelessly Sexy 00:04:23 - Writing a Sex Journal for Women 00:07:23 - Shame and Sexuality 00:12:37 - Exploring Female Sexuality and History 00:16:09 - Exploring Sexuality Through Design 00:18:12 - Achieving Orgasm Equality 00:28:16 - Consent, communication, and sexual exploration 00:30:56 - Orgasm Equality and Sexual Empowerment 00:38:50 - Sex Tech and Favorite Toys 00:39:38 - Sex Toys: Tools Not Replacements 00:43:32 - Sex Toys Changed My Life, sexual health 00:48:09 - Clitoris Shapes, Stimulation, and Orgasm, libido 00:52:17 - Vulva vs Vagina, female anatomy Connect with Miss Educated, Tash http://misseducated.substack.com/ http://tashdoherty.com/ Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 663: Spring Break and Stranded with Her Best Friend's Brothers, Layla Gets Raunchy, Excerpt from Chapter 5, erotic romance fiction. College student Layla finds herself at a cabin with 8 med school students and they begin to hookup to fulfill each other's sexual fantasies. It's a forced proximity romance and they are all at the cabin together for spring break, so, why not? In this excerpt, Layla has decided the men are going to play a cum shooting game, aimed at her, and the winner gets his wish granted by her. It's hot! Scorching hot! This is spicy smut, the full book is an erotic romance fairy tale retelling of Snow White, a why choose romance with lots of sex scenes, plus a love triangle with the two brothers, lots of sexual exploration and empowerment, and ...seriously...it's so hot your ears might start on fire! This excerpt is a part of the novella book "Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Eight Men" that is now available in ebook or paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakstrandedcabineightmen Or get the novella this audio book excerpt is in "Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with her Best Friend's Brothers, Plus 6 Men, Layla Gets Raunchy" https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbestfriendsbrothersplus6menlaylagetsraunchyaudiobook Want the PI Taboo version of the book? Get it on Smashwords right now for FREE! This won't last, so act now! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/taboospringbreakandstrandedatacabinwith8men MEGA sale on Ruan Willow Books! Get my ebooks currently on sale for only $0.99 cents! For a limited time only starting 9/16/25, the books will change but there will always be some for sale in this link, check it out! https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/55ff9594-25e0-4b98-854d-8b89a2ee0896 Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Episode 662: Why Women Stop Wanting Sex and How to Get it Back Even Juicier with Intimacy with Expert Allana Pratt. Summary: Reclaiming True Intimacy: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Sexual Healing Discover how intimacy expert Allana Pratt breaks down the barriers between sexuality, self-acceptance, and genuine connection in this transformative episode. From overcoming trauma to embracing personal pleasure without shame, Allana guides us through the essential journey of understanding our bodies and honoring our desires. The conversation delves deep into how societal pressures often lead women to disconnect from their sexual selves, offering practical insights for rekindling that vital connection. Learn why true intimacy starts with self-love and how creating a safe space for exploration can revolutionize your relationship with yourself and others. Key highlights: - The importance of self-exploration before intimate partnerships - Breaking free from achievement-based self-worth, and get out of performance mode in the bedroom - Embracing the divine feminine and masculine within - Tools for healing sexual trauma - Creating structures for self-care and pleasure Ready to transform your relationship with intimacy and self-acceptance? This episode offers the guidance and permission you've been seeking. Tune in to start your journey toward authentic connection and sexual healing. Timeline (an estimation): 00:00:02 - Understanding Women's Desire for Intimacy 00:08:28 - Exploring Yoni and Sexual Healing 00:11:49 - Exploring Body Awareness and Sensation 00:15:22 - Exploring Sensation and Emotional Release 00:17:11 - Embracing Self-Worth and Pleasure 00:27:00 - Breaking Free from Worthiness Pressure 00:28:25 - Embracing Age and Personal Growth 00:32:27 - Empowering Women Through Boundaries 00:35:03 - Integrating Emotions and Setting Boundaries 00:47:03 - Understanding Trauma and Intimacy 00:53:06 - Finding Alana Pratt's Resources Allana Pratt is an intimacy expert, relationship coach, author of 6 books, and the host of the edgy podcast “Intimate Conversations”. Website: www.AllanaPratt.com Free Gift: www.allanapratt.com/top5mistakes Social media links: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/allanapratt/ Patreon: www.patreon.com/allanapratt Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coachallanapratt Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/AlanaPratt Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Episode 660: Fancy Gets Spanked on the Beach Erotic Fiction Excerpt written by a pen name of Ruan's, RuAnn Willhoe. Get the full ebook on Kindle Unlimited on Amazon and here at this link https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/fancygetsspannkedonthebeach Subtropes: Story blurb: Fancy and Keith the Keeper are an adventurous midlife second marriage couple who seek strangers to interact with in spontaneous unions. They desire to enjoy their intimacy without the confines of walls or prudish conventional rules, rather they live by their own mutually agreed upon boundaries. They go on their adventures together, in the public, but with a smart attention to making sure they are always safe. A foray onto the beach after dinner for some impact play is on their agenda one summer evening, and when they find the perfect spot, they find themselves blessed with even more perfect, and younger, strangers who happen upon them. Then fun really begins! This is an extra hot short story of wife sharing, male domination, female submission, impact play, humiliation, degradation, and exhibitionism, plus lots of mind-blowing pleasure for all! Get the full audiobook story: Sign up for the exclusive level of the podcast to get the full story this week, or read it on Amazon, or search for it soon, appearing on audiobook platforms very soon. It will also appear on Ruan's Substack and Patreon, so join there for access to the full spicy kinky story as well. Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Season 5, Episode 659: From Fantasy Worlds to Dark Romance: A Writer's Journey Through the Pandemic with Author MZ Rylan, an Indie Author MZ Rylan: www.mzrylan.com Bound by Her links www.MzRylan.com/boundbyher Bound by Her (Affiliate links): https://amzn.to/47wNsK4 Dive into an enlightening conversation between authors Ruan Willow and MZ Rylan as they explore the unexpected creative paths that emerged during the pandemic. MZ shares her fascinating transition from crafting intricate fantasy worlds to embracing the raw authenticity of dark romance, while both authors discuss the delicate balance of writing about sexuality and power dynamics in fiction. The episode tackles compelling topics including: Their candid discussion reveals how authors blend research, personal experience, and creativity to craft authentic stories that push boundaries while respecting reader sensitivities. Ready to peek behind the curtain of contemporary romance writing? Listen to this episode for an unfiltered look at the evolving world of romantic fiction and the authors who dare to challenge conventions. Key Takeaways: • The pandemic significantly shifted MZ Rylan's writing focus from intricate fantasy to dark romance, highlighting how external circumstances can influence creativity. • The discussion challenges traditional stereotypes about masculinity and submission in literature, advocating for more diverse and nuanced character representations such as a dominant woman leader, femdom, and female lead relationships. • Curiosity is emphasized as a critical element in storytelling, reinforcing the idea that real-life experiences are fundamental to crafting compelling narratives. Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Season 5, Episode 658: Enjoy and excerpt from the book Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties, Doggy in the Hot Tub and Big Plans. The Winter Ball Continues: the night is winding down, but first for some fun in the hot tub! An Erotica Romance fiction Story of a Bisexual Couple who join an alternative lifestyle Sex Club where the leaders of the club throw sex parties at their house for their adventurous swinging members. Come on the journey as Mallory and Derek figure out how to have sexy fun with others while still being a devoted couple. This story contains polyamory, the swinging lifestyle, partner sharing, and kinky sex. Get the full audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretpartiesaudiobook The ebook is on sale for a limited time only for $0.99 cents! Get it now: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Book blurb: Mallory and Derek are a young mutually dedicated bisexual couple. They both love adventure and new experiences. It's what drew them to each other in the first place. They desire to explore more together, so they decide to join a swinger's alternative lifestyle club. Once the initial overwhelm wears off, they dive in to the insatiable group fun at the private parties, and don't look back. Their world opens up and they can't get enough. They have so much fun, their minds, and their climaxes, are blown to new heights. Life can't get any better. They make new friendships, and cultivate deeper ones that enrich their lives, while they work hard at being diligently respectful of their mutual boundaries. And all the party games, oh, that's mind-blowing and not stopping in its ever-expanding ecstasy! The couple is hooked! When a photographer is hired for one of the private parties and takes sexy pictures of Mallory with an older man who had become one of her regular play partners, Mallory's life, and career, take a turn for the unexpected. She finds herself lucky to be a huge overnight success as a content creator when she begins to post nude pics and spicy videos online. As she finds herself further entrenched in her life with her devoted partner Derek, her new older millionaire gentleman friend wants to be a permanent person in her life, too. Mallory is lucky, she's got two very supportive partners in her life! Who comes along for the full entrepreneurial ride she's on remains to be seen. However, one thing is for sure, she's taking this pleasure train for life. And whoever is by her side better hold tight because it's promising to be a wild trip! Tropes: erotica, Polyamory love triangle, swinging, BDSM, D/s, multiple partner intimacy and relationships, impact play, intimate scenes, bisexuality, experimentation, and empowerment. Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 657: The Power, Art, and Politics of Erotic Romance Writing with Megan Landon Dive into a fascinating conversation with linguist and author Megan Landon about the power of language in erotic and romance writing. From the subtle distinctions between word choices to the broader implications of language in storytelling, this episode uncovers the craft behind creating intimate narratives. Megan shares insights from her workshop "The Allure of Words," exploring how language affects pacing and sensuality in writing. The discussion tackles challenging topics including the stigmatization of erotica, the evolving landscape of romantic fiction, and the political climate affecting authors in the genre. The conversation extends beyond craft to address crucial industry issues: the changing dynamics of romance conventions, the importance of inclusive spaces, and the role of emotional intelligence in storytelling. Particularly poignant is the examination of how patriarchal structures affect both women and men in the literary world. Ready to explore the intricate world of erotic writing and its place in modern literature? Listen to this enlightening episode that bridges linguistics, creativity, and social commentary in the romance genre. *Tune in to discover how language shapes our understanding of intimacy and storytelling.* Key Takeaways: • Megan Landon emphasizes the significant impact of language in storytelling, particularly in the genre of romance and sci-fi fantasy erotica, which is often underestimated. • The discussion highlights the challenges writers face regarding word choice due to the stigmatization of erotica, revealing a nuanced struggle for creative expression. • The podcast explores the effects of patriarchy on both genders within the realm of erotic fiction, suggesting that it can shape emotional connections and societal perceptions in unexpected ways. About Megan: Megan Landon is an award winning writer of sci-fi and fantasy romance and er*t'ca. Her stories are inspired by nature, science, language, and magic. She has a Ph.D. in linguistics and loves to play with the shades of nuance that exist between magic and science. Megan's work has been recognized by the Seattle Erotic Arts Foundation; Fantasy, Futuristic, and Paranormal Romance Writers; Passionate Ink; Literally Lovesick; All the Filthy Details podcast; and the Golden Pigtails Awards. AUDIO RECORDING: Excerpt from Botany and Brujeria narrated by Lola Raine. meganlandon.com meganlandon.com/links Audiobook excerpt Botany and Brujeria can be found at https://mybook.to/botany On Amazon (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3JD8nB8 SOCIALS: Instagram, TikTok, Bluesky, Facebook: @meganlandonauthor Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 655: Erotic Sensual Shorts and Scenarios Shower, Daddy, Peaking, Sensual ASMR, Ride the Experience Climax to Aftercare. This episode is full of mini erotic scenes, erotic poetry, spicy hot thoughts, scenes, and indulgent pleasure sounds. This is short little space of enjoyment, a pocket of self care, decompression, and a place for self care to destress. Take time for you mental health and sexual health everyday, don't skip. You are a whole person who deserves to exercise that wholeness that was given to you at birth, and that includes your sexuality. Enjoy the sensual sounds and ride the erotica, erotic fiction, spicy romance of this short little podcast episode. Pleasure is your birthright, take it baby, it's yours! Ways to promote your sexual health: Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Current books on sale Zesty Entanglements https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/zestyentanglements Servicing the Work Men: Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Get 25% OFF of Ruan's books on her store site: for the month of August 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 654: Unpacking Masculinity with Jacob Tobia: Dive into a thought-provoking conversation with gender nonconforming writer and performer Jacob Tobia as they explore the complexities of manhood in today's society. Jacob, a member of Forbes' 30 Under 30 and the voice behind the non-binary character Double Trouble in Netflix's She-Ra, shares insights from their new book, Before They Were Men: Essays on Manhood, Compassion, and What Went Wrong, which releases on August 26, 2025. Affiliate link to the book https://amzn.to/3JuhaoS In this episode, we discuss the need for compassion towards men, the impact of societal expectations on young boys, and the importance of redefining masculinity. Jacob's candid reflections on their personal journey and the cultural narratives surrounding gender challenge us to rethink our perspectives on manhood and the emotional struggles many face. Key themes include: - The harmful effects of toxic masculinity and the need for a shift towards safe masculinity - Understanding the struggles of young men and boys within the gender binary - The importance of empathy and connection in feminist discourse - Insights into the incel phenomenon and the need for compassion Join us for this enlightening discussion that encourages listeners to foster understanding and healing in a world that often feels divided. Jacob's powerful message is one of hope, urging us all to create a kinder, more inclusive future. Connect with Jacob Tobia: https://jacobtobia.com/ on Instagram @jacobtobia Quotes from Jacob Tobia "It is time I stop avoiding the heart of the work that I owe the world." "Men and boys are suffering spiritually under the gender binary now." "The term toxic masculinity is now a game of telephone and it's gone terribly." "We need to shift our conversation toward compassion for men." "Learning to have empathy for people who hurt you is not easy work." Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Current books on sale Zesty Entanglements https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/zestyentanglements Servicing the Work Men: Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Get 25% OFF of Ruan's books on her store site: for the month of August 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 652: Ruan does erotic improv... Surprise Blow Job at the Restaurant Date Night Story! This story is immersive and hot hot hot! It's told in second person, meaning "You" and "I" are the subjects, and it has ASMR erotic sound elements. Enjoy this erotica fiction, an erotic audio fiction story; it's saucy spicy steamy romance! Stories about relationships with sex in them, because that's how romantic relationships are IRL. Open door and spicy romance subgenres my jam, if it's yours too, then you will love with sensual little date night storytelling experience! FREE EROTICA BOOKS ON AMAZON AUGUST 19-20,2025 ONLY! Check out the free book list and buy for $0 https://storyoriginapp.com/to/DxHlCa2 Books mentioned in the podcast episode that are now on sale: Zesty Entanglements https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/zestyentanglements Servicing the Work Men: Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Get 25% OFF of Ruan's books on her store site: for the month of August 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 651: The Corkscrew and Other Spicy Tales: A Journey Through Sexual Liberation with Spicy Author Sam L. Feldman. Step into the vibrant world of 85-year-old author Sam L. Feldman as he shares his provocative perspectives on love, sexuality, and open relationships. In this captivating episode, Sam reads from his award-winning collection "Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances," treating listeners to "The Corkscrew," a story that masterfully blends sensuality with life experience. Affiliate link to Sam's book: https://amzn.to/4lqajtT The conversation weaves through various themes, from the success of Sam's erotic bestseller to the importance of challenging societal norms around sexuality. Sam's 61-year marriage serves as a testament to his advocacy for open communication and the exploration of desires in relationships. The discussion touches on vital topics including: - The role of ethical non-monogamy in modern relationships, & ethical non monogamy marriage - Combating ageist beliefs about sexuality - The importance of maintaining intimate connections and communication - The power of erotic storytelling in challenging conservative attitudes Ready to challenge your perspectives on love, relationships, and sexual freedom? Don't miss this enlightening conversation with a true pioneer of the sexual revolution. Key Takeaways: • Open relationships can be celebrated and embraced, challenging traditional views on sexuality. • Communication is highlighted as the cornerstone of healthy relationships, even in humorous and unconventional contexts. • Literature plays a significant role in promoting understanding and acceptance of diverse sexual experiences and desires. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Interview with Sam L. Feldman 00:04:44 - Butch, Kathy, and Sugar's Night 00:11:07 - Writing Erotic Tales and Inspirations 00:13:00 - Miscommunication and Betrayal in Storytelling 00:17:49 - Understanding Ethical Non-Monogamy 00:21:51 - Sexual Revolution and Modern Relationships 00:30:43 - Importance of Printing Your Story 00:33:13 - Challenges in Sexuality After Mastectomy 00:38:42 - Book Selling Challenges and Bikini Culture 00:41:14 - Success and Challenges on TikTok 00:43:27 - Promoting My Book Journey 00:47:12 - Creating a Unique Erotic Narrative 00:50:09 - Validation Through Award-Winning Writing 00:52:18 - AI's Role in Creativity and Art 01:00:24 - Understanding Opinions and Generational Differences 01:03:18 - Empowerment Through Reading and Writing Connect with Sam L. Feldman: https://www.samlfeldman.com/ Quotes from Sam L. Feldman "Don't let them take the joy out of sex." "These stories may never be told again." "Communication is the key." "Sex can relieve stress, can relieve pain, it can boost moods." Support the show Exclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Episode 649: Eating Pussy and Other Erotic Treats, erotic poetry, erotic poems, hot snippets, steamy scenes, and sexy spicy ASMR. Enjoy spicy romance, spicy fiction, erotic romance, erotica fiction, and sensual ASMR sounds. Ruan's store, buy books directly from Ruan herself and get 25% OFF of books in August 2025 at https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box, Use code DATE30 for $30 OFF your first box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 648: Second Chances and Seasoned Romance: Writing Love Stories for the Over-40 Crowd, Get this book for FREE (for a limited time only) Come As You Are: A Gen X Romance https://amzn.to/3J6ne6Y Dive into my refreshing conversation with author Jess K. Hardy as she challenges the youth-centric world of romance fiction by championing love stories featuring characters over 40. Join us as we explore why midlife romance deserves more spotlight in contemporary and sci-fi fantasy genres. Hardy passionately argues that life experience enriches romance storytelling, drawing from her own journey as both a writer and a woman embracing her prime years. Our discussion delves into the liberating world of indie publishing, where diverse stories can flourish beyond traditional constraints. From navigating publishing challenges to balancing different formats (ebooks, audiobooks, and paperbacks), our conversation offers valuable insights into the modern author's journey. We share candid perspectives on writing processes, trope preferences, and the delicate art of crafting "spice" levels that resonate with readers. Ready to challenge your perspectives on age in romance? Tune in to this episode for an inspiring discussion about love, creativity, and the power of second chances. Enjoy the excerpt from the audiobook "Lips Like Sugar" at the end of the interview. Timeline: 00:00:06 - Chatting with Author Jess K. Hardy 00:03:37 - Challenges of Writing Midlife Romance 00:05:26 - Indie Publishing and Diverse Voices 00:10:37 - Character-Driven Plot Dynamics 00:28:23 - Finding Errors Through Audiobook Narration 00:32:44 - Writing Inspirations and Challenges 00:40:54 - Struggles and Success in Storytelling 00:43:46 - AI in Writing: Public Awareness 00:46:31 - Challenges for New Authors 00:48:05 - Final Thoughts and Book Promotions 00:49:36 Excerpt from Lips Like Sugar Key Takeaways: • Midlife characters are increasingly central in contemporary and sci-fi fantasy romance, challenging stereotypes about aging and love. • The discussion highlights the unexpected empowerment found in writing for older protagonists, promoting a narrative shift in the genre. • The balance between digital and physical book formats is evolving, indicating a dynamic change in indie publishing practices and reader preferences. Books: (affiliate links) Bluebird Basin Series https://amzn.to/4ors6Uf Come As You Are: A Gen X Romance https://amzn.to/3J6ne6Y Lips Like Sugar https://amzn.to/45OxQ27 Audiobook https://amzn.to/4lpmOpJ Wish You Were Here https://amzn.to/3J0EwlZ Connect with Jess K Hardy: https://jesskhardy.com/ Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Episode 647: The Drink Master, excerpt, A Heterosexual Slow Burn Forced Proximity Erotic Spicy Romance Novella. A romance author relaxes at a lodge, which is exactly what she needs, even after a whole weekend away. More relaxation, yes please. But when lingers too long eyeing up the eye candy resort bartender, she gets snowbound. He's so charming and accommodating that he keeps feeding her drinks while a winter storm rages outside. After the ending of her marriage, she's ready for some ultra spicy fun and she soon finds out this surprising Pleasure Dom expertly mixes up a date better than any measly drink he's ever given her. Her delights abound as she accepts his invitation to dinner. An erotic audio, erotic fiction piece, a holiday romance story of forced proximity and being at the right place at the right time. Tropes: Dom/sub role play, consent is sexy, hookup, midlife romance, dirty talk, holiday, Christmas romance, hungry for pleasure, mutual pleasure is mutual bliss Ruan's Payhip store, get 25% OFF during the month of August of 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks The Drink Master https://payhip.com/b/aWZwK Subscribe to the exclusive level of the podcast to get the full audiobook. Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 642: The Third Sexual Revolution, & Sex Ed for Adults with Sabrina Baldini. Did you know we might be on the cusp of a third sexual revolution? Sex educator Sabrina Baldini shares fascinating insights from her journey transitioning from teaching sex education to kids to launching After Sex Ed, a company focused on adult sexual wellness. Through candid discussion, Sabrina explores: - The challenges of promoting sex positivity in today's censorship climate - How inadequate early sex education impacts adult relationships - The pandemic's role in catalyzing sexual awakening, self discovery, personal growth, and exploration - The growing demand for authentic, relatable content in adult spaces - Historical parallels with previous sexual revolutions (1920s and 1960s) Despite social media bans and societal stigma, Sabrina remains committed to fostering open conversations about sexuality, consent, and pleasure. Her work bridges the gap between traditional sex education and the real-world challenges adults face in their intimate lives. Ready to challenge your perspectives on sexual wellness and education? Tune in to this thought-provoking episode that's reshaping how we think and talk about sexuality. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Sex Education for Adults 00:01:43 - Challenges of Discussing Sex Education 00:04:20 - Challenges of Sex Positivity 00:08:04 - Talking to Kids About Consent 00:10:00 - Understanding Healthy Sexual Feelings 00:16:16 - The Rise of the Third Sexual Revolution 00:22:30 - Impact of Taboo on Sexual Behavior 00:23:41 - Trends in Authenticity and Romance 00:26:23 - Exploring Age and Sexuality 00:30:29 - Impact of Technology on Sexuality 00:34:18 - Trends in Modern Relationships 00:37:19 - Online Safety and Dating Apps 00:38:40 - Concerns About AI in Art 00:48:54 - Addressing Sexuality and Porn Education 00:54:47 - Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality 00:59:46 - Understanding Fantasy and Sexuality 01:01:51 - Understanding Emotional Connections in Sex Key Takeaways: • Adult sexual education is often overlooked, despite the urgent need for discussions on pleasure and consent. • The pandemic highlighted and intensified the challenges of censorship in sexual education, affecting adult learners. • There is a growing movement, referred to as a third sexual revolution, that emphasizes open dialogue and authenticity in exploring sexuality. Sabrina Baldini | Sex Educator, TEDx Speaker & Founder of After Sex Ed Her website TEDx talk Instagram TikTok YouTube Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a text Ep 640: Hunted at Work for a Quickie with the Chef written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Dana, now single after a dull unsexy marriage, was working at an old folks home to make money for herself and her kids. She had started offering side jobs of taboo acts for the residents to earn extra money to help pay her way through nursing school. The Chef of the home, Cyrus, had found this out and wanted in on the action, but promised to pay her in pleasure instead. They'd fallen into a sexy game of hunter and prey, which they enacted on their work breaks, and found hidden places around the building to have sex. Having almost got caught, they were swift and smart about their sneaky rendezvous. Dana, who gets very turned on by Cyrus's filthy dirty talk, gets a surprise from him that leaves her excited for more of the sexy middle-aged chef. Enjoy this spicy erotic fiction story! Erotic storytelling to enjoy, grab your pleasure in what entertains you, it's your birthright to experience pleasure! Read this story on Theo Reads: https://www.theoreads.com/story/942fd676-7525-49ba-a3d8-9a5b81d6a5ad/view Dark erotic thriller suspense romance Beach House Views chapter 9 (read chapter 1 for FREE): https://www.theoreads.com/story/cf61c1a0-09b0-4e78-86e7-d39bd5140a44/view Support the show Exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Affiliates BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah The Fantasy Box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423